18 Months Out
With 18 months to go before your wedding day, this is when it’s time to lock in the most important aspect of your wedding – the date and venue.
What Time Of Year To Get Married
An important aspect to consider when deciding on your venue, is what time of year you’d like to tie the knot, as this can majorly impact your final venue decision.
If you’ve always dreamed of getting married in a picturesque garden, this may not be fully attainable in the middle of winter, so you may prefer to select a date in spring when the flowers are in full bloom.
For something that works year round, consider a venue that has indoor and outdoor spaces, and allows you to host your ceremony and reception under the same roof.
This means that whatever time of year you end up booking, there are plenty of options available to you.
Pick A Wedding Venue And Pay Deposit
Once you’ve picked your dream date, it’s time to secure the venue with a deposit, pop a bottle of bubbly and celebrate.
That is one of the most pivotal decisions you’ll make, and now you can begin the rest of your wedding planning journey.
Going hand in hand with this, is deciding what your vision is for your wedding day.
Now is your opportunity to scour Pinterest and Instagram for every ounce of wedding inspiration, saving thousands of images of florals, styling, and wedding photography style that you’re obsessed with to show your future wedding vendors.
Aesthetics
Have a think about what aesthetic you’re dreaming of and how it can tie into your venue. Perhaps you’re loving the sleek and classy soiree vibes that perfectly ties into a luxe wedding venue. Or maybe you’re looking for something more fun and whimsical that breathes personality into a warehouse venue.
These aesthetics can easily be created through florals, custom stationery, and beautiful wedding party outfits that tie it all together. Be sure to save plenty of different inspiration, as you never know how your style might change over the next 18 months!
12 MONTHS OUT – 1 YEAR TO GO!
After taking a few months to research what exactly you’re envisioning for your big day, this is the point in your wedding planning journey where you can start making some major progress by securing your wedding vendors.
Secure Wedding Vendors
Take a look at a variety of suppliers from each category, e.g:
- Photography
- Floristry
- Catering
Start reaching out to each to make a shortlist of those that stand out from the rest.
A few elements to consider include price, location, available information, and ease of communication, as these are all a great indication of whether each business is right for you.
Popular vendors may already be booked for your wedding date, so it’s important to ensure that you begin this process early to avoid missing out, whilst keeping track of others who may be available as your back ups.
12 months out is a great time to get the majority of your vendors locked in, and also means that most of the toughest decisions are now done and dusted, allowing you to focus on the smaller details for a few months.
Consider A Wedding Planner
If wedding planning is not exactly your forte, we highly recommend using this time to lock in a highly skilled and experienced wedding planner to alleviate some of the stress.
A wedding planner will offer a hand to hold throughout the entire journey, managing every aspect of your day from liaising with suppliers, to answering any and all questions you may have about the running of the day.
They will guide you as you make decisions, and handle all logistics in the lead up to your wedding. We highly recommend leaving a bit of wiggle room in your budget to allow for this Fairy Godmother to come on board and add their flair to your special day.
Compile An In-Depth Wedding Guest List
With all of your main wedding day components locked in, use this time to have a more indepth think about your wedding guest list. You may have used an estimated number of guests when venue hunting in order to eliminate any too big or too small, but this is the time for you to really tighten up your list to include your nearest and dearest.
While you still have quite a while until invitations need to be sent, by creating a more accurate guest list at the 12 month mark, this will assist in getting quotes for reception table florals, catering, on the day stationery and invitations.
It’ll also give you a better representation of your overall budget for the day. Fortunately, many venues won’t require you to confirm your guest numbers until about 6 weeks before your wedding, so no need to stress if your list changes between now and then.
11 MONTHS OUT
11 months before your wedding, you’ll find yourself continuing to chip away at small tasks involved in the wedding journey to keep yourself on track.
Bridal Party
Use this month as an opportunity to propose to your wedding party, asking them to be by your side on your most special day. Many brides opt to do this with bridesmaid proposal boxes offering branded clothing, personalised champagne glasses and plenty of self care items, showing their appreciation to their closest family and friends too.
For a more informal proposal, opt to treat your friends to a casual dinner where you can pop them the question. Hopefully they’ll say ‘I do’ too!
Save The Date
For the rest of your loved ones, this is a common time when save the dates are sent out. Giving guests 11 months notice of your wedding is more than ample to ensure that everyone can keep the date free and make alternative arrangements wherever necessary, meaning that the majority of your favourite people should be present to dance the night away.
An advantage of letting your guests know nice and early is that some guests may let you know that they won’t be able to attend, meaning you can either add additional special guests to fill the spots, or opt for a smaller guest list overall.
Choose a Celebrant
The 11 month mark is also prime time to lock in the rest of your wedding suppliers. While you may have secured your florist, planner and photographer in the early stages of your wedding planning process, there’s a variety of other aspects of your wedding day that need to be organised too.
This is a great time to start researching a celebrant whose personality will be able to perfectly convey your love story to guests during your ceremony.
Be sure to chat to multiple celebrants, as each has a different style, and you’ll need to think about whether you’re wanting a tear-jerker, or a light hearted and fun-filled ceremony for your day.
Need A Wedding DJ Or Band?
On top of this, we recommend nailing down your entertainment, whether this be an acoustic duo to sing you down the aisle, or a DJ/Sax combination to get the dance floor pumping during your reception.
Other couples may go down the more traditional route, opting for a live band, or maybe this is where you decide to pull back in the budget, and go with a carefully curated Spotify playlist over the venue speakers.
With all of this in mind, it’s important to get the majority of your vendors locked in at this point, so that you can avoid decision fatigue later on in your journey.
10 MONTHS OUT
Wedding Colour Palettes And Schemes
With your florist and maybe even a stylist locked in, the ten month mark is where you can really delve into the nitty gritty details of your wedding palette, and decide just how you want to bring your vision to life.
As we mentioned earlier, Pinterest is about to become your best friend. Start by filtering through all of the common wedding keywords, including:
- Wedding ceremony backdrop
- Wedding table styling
- Bridal bouquet
When something catches your eye, be sure to add it to your own wedding theme board, as this will create a simple vision board that you can show your florist when you’re chatting about all things blooms.
A bold and bright palette is the perfect addition to a summer wedding, offering shades of magenta, red, orange, and lemon throughout table florals and stationery, however, many couples love a sleek and classy all white palette to let their venue do the talking – the options are endless.
It’s tough to know exactly what your style will be in 10 months time, so we suggest saving at least two or three wedding colour palettes that really catch your eye – remember, you won’t have to confirm these details until a few months before your wedding anyways!
Time To Go Looking For Wedding Outfits
Ten months before your wedding is also a great time to start outfit hunting!
While suits might not require this much lead time, if you’re looking for a stunning wedding dress that is custom fitted to your body, you’ll need to get in early to ensure you can snap up exactly what you’re after with plenty of time. You’ll also want to give yourself plenty of time to try a variety of dresses, especially if this is your first time seeing yourself in a wedding day – you never know what you might fall in love with!
We recommend trying a bunch of different styles to see what suits, and shopping around to ensure you’re getting the best value for money. Remember, you don’t need to buy your dress straight away!
Use this time to window show and try on as many as you like before eventually settling for the one – for many, this is one of the bigger decisions involved in your wedding journey.
9 MONTHS OUT
At this point in your journey, nine months before your wedding, take the opportunity to say ‘I do’ to your wedding dress.
The Wedding Dress
After what is bound to be a lengthy process going from store to store, trying on a million beautiful gowns, we hope you’ve found the one that you’re ready to commit to.
This timeline will give you ample time to have any alterations made so that your dress fits you like a glove, and will mean that you can start thinking about how to to take your outfit to the next level with accessories like a veil, and jewelry.
Wedding Cake
Next, it’s time to get that delicious wedding cake all locked in. Take this as an opportunity to sample plenty of cake tasting boxes with your lover, using this as an at-home date night opportunity where you crack open a bottle of wine, put on your favourite movie and sample every flavour that these bakers have to offer!
Have a think about whether you want a large, multi-tiered cake that will allow your entire guest list to have a slice, or if you’d prefer something smaller to use for the cake cutting, before serving alternate desserts instead.
You’ll also need to have a think about what kind of design you’re after, and this is again where the Pinterest research can come in handy. You’ll find images of everything from vintage heart cakes to 3 tiered classic beauties, so it’s up to you to decide how much of a focal point you want your wedding cake to be.
Once you’ve made up your mind, get to locking in that sweet treat!